Author: scott

  • “I’ll just wait for you right here”

    “I’ll just wait for you right here”

    Norman hated doctor appointments, and these last four years offered a constant, never-ending stream of them. Of course, I drove him to each and every appointment, took care of the paperwork, and did most of the talking and discussing with the doctor. When I arrived to pick him up, he had often forgotten what was…

  • Faking his way thru the federal agent’s eye exam

    Norman is color blind, which meant that he couldn’t pass the eye exam for special agents. Unfortunately, this isn’t something you can “fix,” and it meant that he couldn’t have the career he wanted. For some, that would have been the end of it. They’d look for another position, or perhaps even a different career…

  • Fired as a dishwasher

    When Norman landed in the United States at age 18, he needed to find a job. One of the jobs he held—only briefly—was as a dishwasher at a restaurant. In addition to washing the dishes, he was occasionally called upon to retrieve certain items from the walk-in refrigerator or storeroom. Unfortunately for him, he had…

  • Lost shoe

    Lost shoe

    I’m not sure how he managed it, but Norman was constantly losing a shoe at the bar. We’d be sitting there, enjoying our beverages, and he’d say “Whoops, my shoe.” Or I’d just happen to look down and notice that one of them was off. I’d bend down and help him get it back on.…

  • “I forgot my wallet again”

    “I forgot my wallet again”

    We have been managing all of my dad’s finances since his health crisis in 2020. That included taking his credit and debit cards out of his wallet. Since all his meals and in-room services were billed to his room, he never needed to pay for anything out-of-pocket. I did leave him a $20 bill, just…